Social Media Insights Charlotte Howard

Anyone watching “Kitchen Nightmares” starring Gordon Ramsey a couple weeks ago in the episode featuring Amy and Samy Bouzaglo of Amy’s Baking Company in Scottsdale, Ariz. must still be shaking their heads in amazement at the social media fiasco that has ensued. It seems the owners didn’t think much of the advice proposed by the often outspoken Ramsey, then took to their Facebook page to begin an all-out flame war with their critics, huge numbers of Reddit commenters that descended upon their page, and at last count have left some 45,000 comments. This turned out to be a classic lesson in how NOT to do social media. The always stubborn owner Amy, joined in by her husband, opened fire in an epic flaming match with all the commenters, complete with salty language in all caps, to boot. There is little doubt they’ll be dealing whith this for a long time, as the vast majority of the comments were, how should we say, less than complimentary. This was an epic social media train wreck if there ever was one.

What not to do on Facebook

In a sober celebration of this meltdown, we thought it would be smart to go over some the basics regarding how you should comport oneself on a social media site like Facebook.

  • Always address complaints, but in a civil manner.
  • NEVER get into a flaming match with a poster. YOU WILL LOSE!
  • Correct anything that is wrong or misstated, but be sure to keep your head about you. No confrontations!
  • Try and keep a sense of humor. Sharks smell blood in the water…
  • Be professional, generous, and watch controversy die on the vine.
  • Do not resort to cursing or confronting. If you need to scream a name at someone, hold back until you get in the shower!
  • Do not share too much personal information. It can be used against you. Let your personality stand out, but not your home address!

While Amy’s Baking Company is definately not the first to actively engage their fans in entirely the wrong way, (see Nestle) it apparently wasn’t their first rodeo. They got into it with a Yelp reviewer in 2010, and the negative comments are still coming in!

Charlotte Howard (590 Posts)

Charlotte Howard the “Book Writing Prosperity Coach” has created multiple 6-Figure+ successful brands teaching beauty industry professionals, women entrepreneurs, experts, coaches, authors, speakers and service based organizations how to amplify their message, share their story and use their expertise to impact people’s lives. She has a passion for helping her clients to create freedom based 6-Figure+ businesses by writing best selling books, programs and products. She is a book publishing expert and strategist who personally published over 1000 best selling books in 13 different languages. She is also the executive talk show producer and award-winning star of Heart Centered Women TV, Heart Centered Women Media Podcast and Success and Beauty Talk Radio Show on iTunes, which debuted at #1 on iTunes in multiple categories. She has been called by the Information Marketing Journal a “Information Marketing Genius” and featured in over 1000 media outlets including ABC, NBC and FOX. Are You Ready To Create Your Next Best Selling Books, Programs and Products? Contact her and her team today for a complimentary strategy session. Call 843-376-9044 or visit